(Originally published by Death Doula Network International) As deathcare providers (and people who have personally experienced loss), we know that issues of regret, shame, and forgiveness can sometimes arise during a person’s last chapter. It’s as if suppressed difficulties return when time runs short. Knowing this, how might we begin to prepare ourselves and those… Continue reading Resolution Through Releasing
To know him was to know connection. Bob "Hoff" Hoffman was a brilliant bundle of energy. He lived zestfully and died prepared. Hoff first reached out to me in 2019 after attending one of my death literacy events. We met for coffee and became fast friends. Always a supporter of my work and books, he… Continue reading Harmonically Ours
(Originally published on the WOW: Women's Older Wisdom blog) One of the ongoing entries in my Death Journal has been my “Happiness Is” list. When I revisit this particular section, I see evidence of numerous additions. There are different inks, and my handwriting varies as well. Some of the initial entries are large as though… Continue reading Happiness Is…
Before becoming a speaker and author, I’m not sure I really understood what an act of courage it is to share what you create. Public speaking is gravely feared, and it makes good sense! When we stand up in front of people and verbalize what’s on our hearts and minds (hoping it might be useful… Continue reading Vulnerability and Courage
Reflecting back, turning inward, and planning ahead As a doula, I have held space at both ends of life. Just as my own pregnancies and labors originally inspired my birth work, a series of personal losses inspired my interest in deathcare. Both thresholds beckon a similar presence—one that is centered, calming, and reassuring. When caring… Continue reading Healthy Preparedness
Francesca Lynn Arnoldy 